Dreaded words: back to school

December 31st, 2009 - 

Just a few days left with the kids home.  This year was only the 2nd year (of the past 6) that lilbuckjr and his sister weren’t here to open presents on Christmas. (Remind me to tell you about the first – that’s for another post.) It never really feels like Christmas now without them here. As much as I LOVE waking up in the middle of the night to put out presents–always forgetting the cookies and having to make something up last minute–this year I missed doing that.

I mean, you only get so many Christmas mornings, right?

So we celebrated Christmas Day with my mom & sister’s family, and then celebrated again on Sunday when the kids were here. It was overwhelmingly meh, despite our best efforts to keep the kids cheery, which was disheartening. Twenty minutes of opening presents and that was that. Practically had to beg for a simple “Thank you.” I guess they are just at that age now (10 & 13).

In any case, now sister has been gone to a friend’s house for a couple of days; lilbuckjr is in-and-out playing with his friends; and the chef and I are back to work.  I’ll admit, Monday when they were all home, I was totally overwhelmed. I get that way on short work weeks to begin with. Coupled with all the noise and commotion…. I was a wreck!

And now it’s almost that time. Back to school on Tuesday. Back to our regular schedule. I will admit that can’t complain about the freedom & quiet time during the week: confessions of a workaholic. AND we do have a great schedule with the kids since we see them every weekend & all summer long which is more than most joint custody arrangements get.

What’s dreaded the most about it is we go back to dealing with the not-so-fun stuff. You know what I mean.

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new section to the blah-g

November 27th, 2009 - 

I’ve been thinking about this for awhile now, and I’ve finally come to a decision. And I’m starting a new section on this blog.

Most of you know, I’ve been a step-mom going on 4 years now. (Technically, 6 years if you count the Chef’s and my “courtship” time.) But who’s counting? It has been a roller-coaster-ride (#understatementoftheCENTURY) RIGHT out of the shoot.

I can’t help but think, “There must be other step-moms (and dad’s) who have been through similar experiences, and why the heck can’t we talk about this and support each other? In sharing over the years with my close friends & extended family, my parenting experiences are worth sharing both to divorced and happily married parents. We shall see.

Sometimes, I just need an outlet for my own sanity. Sometimes, I need support, feedback, advice. Sometimes I wanna know if I’m crazy or not. Sometimes, I want to help anyone I can who has been through the same thing.

I have no idea where this will go, how often I will feel compelled to share, what I should say/not say. But since my ‘online life is my REAL life’ as I say, its about time I got real and started sharing.

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